We're Pregnant!

Ahhhh, secret's out! Ben and I are ready to start the biggest chapter of our lives. The newest member to our lil fam is arriving this fall. This whole experience has been huge for us and I just wanted to share a slice of what was going through my mind.
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  • Ohhh my goodness. I'm in tears reading all your comments. Thank you thank you thank you for the amount of support. 😭😭😭I was really nervous uploading this video, but I just wanted to be honest and open about it all. I hope it can help anyone who's experiencing something similar. Honestly Ben, Cheeki and I are SO excited to welcome our newest family member in September. 👶🏻

    Jenn ImJenn Im12 өдрийн өмнө
    • I rarely write comment in youtube but here i am saying that I’m so happy for you I’m in tears🥺 wishing all the very best for the three of you🤍

      cyn wucyn wu2 өдрийн өмнө
    • You’ll be a great mother.

      Narigho BalindiNarigho Balindi4 өдрийн өмнө
    • Wow. Congratulation. This is amazing. God bless you and your family 😍

      Flavor MazeFlavor Maze4 өдрийн өмнө
    • Congratulations Jenn😭😭💖

      EmilyEmily5 өдрийн өмнө
    • I am beyond ecstatic for you both! Everything that you are feeling (good and bad) are COMPLETELY VALID! Please understand that. You and Ben have such a spectacular dynamic; your baby is already so so blessed to be able to share and absorb all of your love, wisdom, experiences, and more. You two will be and already are such beautiful, loving parents. They will be forever surrounded by endless love Max protection, and guidance. You have nothing to fear as god would never give you more than what you can handle. This baby is meant for you two. I love y’all, thank you for sharing this beautiful moment with us all. ❤️

      Rachel MarieRachel Marie6 өдрийн өмнө
  • Don't worry girl you got this you can take care of dog you can take care of a baby don't think too much take care of yourself and your body stay home and be safe always keep your mask on if you go outside love you guys so much you guys will have a little cute family together can't wait to see the little one ☺️ I'm so happy for you too

    kiki xiongkiki xiong37 минутын өмнө
  • all your fears will go away once you feel the first kick :)

    Kookie MonstreKookie Monstre2 цагийн өмнө
  • Drama queen

    Princess Jamyang EntertainmentPrincess Jamyang Entertainment4 цагийн өмнө
  • I'm crying. This is the most beautiful and true video about pregnancy. I think you gonna be good mom for your child🌸😍😚

    Moon LitoMoon Lito4 цагийн өмнө
  • I got teary watching this lovely video ❤

    Lanlia JamirLanlia Jamir5 цагийн өмнө
  • Congratulations Jenn & Ben! This felt so surreal im in happy tear

    Famirah FndFamirah Fnd6 цагийн өмнө
  • This is so beautiful😭.I cried the whole clip😭😭

    Aseng PertinAseng Pertin7 цагийн өмнө

    marumaru8 цагийн өмнө
  • the vulnerability here was so touching, thank you for being a real human

    Allison MerzAllison Merz8 цагийн өмнө
  • Jenn, I haven't mentioned before but I always thought you would be great mother because I always learn so much important things about life from you. You've led me to so many inspiring, awesome books and people. I think when a person grows up it's so important to learn about those things. Your wisdom that you gain through your books are insightful and important. I've always thought that your child would have the best parents, you and Ben.

    nicolenicole8 цагийн өмнө
    • I even think Cheeki is one of the most blessed dog in the world. Because you guys take so much good care on her.

      nicolenicole8 цагийн өмнө
  • Wow, that was really beautiful. Really raw and real

    Amber JohnsonAmber Johnson9 цагийн өмнө
  • I’m in tears 😭

    Marcy CeesayMarcy Ceesay9 цагийн өмнө
  • I'm not weeping you are

    Mackenzie KeelMackenzie Keel11 цагийн өмнө
  • I teared up watching this:') congrats Jenn. you will do great as a mother. I will always support you no matter what.

    Candy HuangCandy Huang13 цагийн өмнө
  • Is that artem?

    James HJames H13 цагийн өмнө
  • i know i was not the only one crying from beginning to end of this beautiful video! what an incredible expression of the rang of life & human emotions!! ugh Congratulations Jenn & Ben! Wishing you & Your growing Family so much Support, Love & Joy✨

    Ashley K.Ashley K.13 цагийн өмнө
  • Congratulations!!! 😭😭 been watching since 2014 and can’t believe you’re pregnant! You and Ben will be the best parents x

    ShoefridgeShoefridge14 цагийн өмнө
  • Lovisa DahlinLovisa Dahlin15 цагийн өмнө
  • You are going to have so much fun! As a momma with a September baby almost 6yo) I can tell you that you will most likely be is for a wild ride! Enjoy it

    Erika CastilloErika Castillo15 цагийн өмнө
  • I cried threeeee separate times watching this, so beautiful so excited for you ❤️

    Leah Van ZantLeah Van Zant16 цагийн өмнө
  • 축하해요!!! 진심으로 응원해요 좋은 엄마가 되실거 같아요 :)

    승맹아승맹아17 цагийн өмнө
  • the best youtuber. ever.

    酷妈黛安娜Cool Mum Dianna酷妈黛安娜Cool Mum Dianna17 цагийн өмнө
  • Best wishes the new mom!

    Anhelina DavydyukAnhelina Davydyuk18 цагийн өмнө
  • This is the one and only video that made me cry so hard

    anya srianya sri18 цагийн өмнө
  • 😭😢 I'm so happy for yall lol

    B R I T T A N YB R I T T A N Y19 цагийн өмнө

    Emily MatasEmily Matas19 цагийн өмнө
  • You are going to be the best mom ever. Sending lots of love your way ❤

    bitchy moodbitchy mood20 цагийн өмнө
  • I have never seen a pregnancy announcement that resonated more with me. The honesty, kindness, self-knowledge, and love just radiate from you, even as you admit your fears. We should all be so lucky to have a mother like you. Really, truly.

    Eira CapelánEira Capelán20 цагийн өмнө
  • Congratulation~ love you and support you from Korea

    최수네입최수네입21 цагийн өмнө
  • i cried so hard with this video, I'm so happy with seeing people being loved, at the same time, I also feel sad about this kind of happiness may not happen to me

    Yaxi GaoYaxi Gao22 цагийн өмнө
  • Awww💕💕💕 congratulations 🥳 can’t wait to see you Benn and ur baby in Japan 🇯🇵❤️ please visit japan again! 😚❤️❤️ stay safe xx

  • Oh Jenn you made me cry from the start till the end! Congratulations for you both! Thanks for sharing this raw feelings and keep it real, I went through this exact feelings last year, in March 2020, and today I’m sitting here on the couch with my little peanut sleeping in my arms and watching your video. I can assure you that it’s still scary today but it definitely gets easier with time! You are everything your baby will need and you’ll see that he/she will going to fall in love with you. There’s nothing like our baby looking to us, their eyes are a deep well full of love! Enjoy every little second because time passes so fast! You rock super mamma!

  • Watching you crying reminds of me when my wife found out she had. When i heard it from my wife on the phone at subway station, i could not stop crying for 30 min...just I was grateful for everything..... By the way...your Korean is so cute while mine is not..(I am a korean korean btw)

    LaFaroLaFaroӨдрийн өмнө
  • This is the most honest video I have watched. I literally cried the whole time. Love you Jenn 🧡 you will be such a wonderful mother. Your baby is lucky to have you as a mother💗congratulations to you both 🎈

    hanahana sebhanahana sebӨдрийн өмнө
  • I love how you story-tell. It's such an amazing gift.

    Maria NunezMaria NunezӨдрийн өмнө
  • 🥺🥺🥺🥺🤍🤍🤍🤍

    Melissa EsaMelissa EsaӨдрийн өмнө
  • Tears and tears love this 💕

    Danielle CarrilloDanielle CarrilloӨдрийн өмнө
  • So happy for you Jenn! 😍😍 I'm kinda predict it from your some last video Wish you healthy inside outside until the baby coming 🤗

    theresia agnestitheresia agnestiӨдрийн өмнө
  • Your natural fears here show me what a great mum you will be. You’re natural reaction is lovely to see and appreciated. Congratulations xx

    SarahSarahӨдрийн өмнө
  • Dear Jenn - I've watched you since your starting days with clothesencounters, introduced to me so many years ago by my close friend friend. We were also two young asian girls into fashion and would dress up nicely and go downtown, scroll through lookbook endlessly, go to vintage shops and try to find our own thrifted pieces, take photos of our looks, compliment each other, watch your videos... :) I actually hadn't kept up too closely with you over the many years, but would always see your videos, photos pop up here and then, especially of some of your big life moments (like when you got married!) and every time they did, I'd be blown away by how fast time seemed to go, but at the same time, it felt nice to know that we were all flying through this time together. I'm just 2 years younger, so it always felt like we were going through similar stages at the same time. Plus, it was always nice to see that you always seemed to be... you! Today was another day where I had seen a video of yours for the first time in a while, and the same feeling I explained right above hit me hard. I gasped and clicked on the video after seeing the title, and just spent the last 10 minutes crying, smiling, and being washed over by so many strange emotions. My older sister recently got pregnant and all the emotions you showed in the video, she had expressed to me as well. She unfortunately had a miscarriage only 7 weeks in... My sister was very... affected by it and our family has had a bit of a tough time since, but we've all recovered and are hoping for another miracle to find us soon! We're on opposite sides of the globe and haven't been able to meet because of the current situations, but watching your video made me feel a warmth and positivity for the near future with my family as well. You also posted this video on her birthday so I'm feeling a bit weird hahaha! Thank you ♥ I am so, sincerely happy for you in this new chapter of life and although many people have said this already, you are going to be an amazing mother, because you are the only mother to your child. That already makes you the best mom for him/her :) I wish you safe and healthy days ahead, sending you so much love from Korea!

    Stephanie CStephanie CӨдрийн өмнө
  • The most precious and wholesome video

    Fay GFFay GFӨдрийн өмнө
  • So proud of you everything will be fine Hope you and your baby healthy and happy everyday by little fans❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    0chubbychubby00chubbychubby0Өдрийн өмнө
  • this video made me cry, I'm so happy for you guys! :,)

    Aneela DarAneela DarӨдрийн өмнө
  • You got me crying! The most heartwarming & touching video ever! 💜

    Wintersnow147Wintersnow147Өдрийн өмнө
  • Wow congrats Jen ! 🤗🥰 (Long time viewer first time commenting) and I also want to say thank you for posting this video and being vulnerable. I always thought I was alone in this mindset as well. I’m in a relationship of 4 years and I would get anxiety just the thought of the future of having kids. I whole heartedly felt this video I felt all your emotions as if they were my own. I am extremely happy for you both ☺️ You’re kid is going to love you unconditionally. 💓 much love, one of you’re subscribers

    erikekeerikekeӨдрийн өмнө
  • BYEEE I AM SOBBINg you are going to be amazing parents. I am so excited for you!1!

    Taylor MoonTaylor MoonӨдрийн өмнө
  • Thank you for this video...

    Trang DoanTrang DoanӨдрийн өмнө
  • So happy for you guys. ❤️😭🥰

    Bolormaa ZorigtbaatarBolormaa ZorigtbaatarӨдрийн өмнө

    Chenalin De Los SantosChenalin De Los SantosӨдрийн өмнө
  • omg im crying congratulations to you both

    Lien PhanLien PhanӨдрийн өмнө
  • Thank you for sharing such heartfelt moments. ❤️ It is natural to have these fears and anxiety. You are going to do the best you can and that will be good enough. Just remember that there is no right or wrong way to be a mom. Motherhood will be a wonderful journey in itself. Embrace the highs and the lows. Only then can we grow and learn. Congrats to you and Ben! Looking forward to seeing you guys start this new chapter of your life. Thank you for being so candid. I’m totally not crying into my lunch right now. 😂

    SuperNancyFancyPantsSuperNancyFancyPantsӨдрийн өмнө
  • this is the most pure, most genuine and most real video I have ever seen on youtube. Thank you Jen for sharing this amazing new chapter with us and for showing all the upcoming mothers that it is okay not to feel sure and to feel scared and in doubt. Its all normal. You are such a wonderful person and you can do this❤️ I wish you all the best🙌🏻

    Cindy SabolčecCindy SabolčecӨдрийн өмнө
  • you don't need to feel excited. it's okay you are scared. Thank you Jenn for showing us the real Jenn

    ziru leiziru leiӨдрийн өмнө
  • This was the sweetest way to capture such a special moment ✨ So so happy for you and Ben! 💜💜

    Sara IsmailSara IsmailӨдрийн өмнө
  • Omg I’m tearing up!! Jenn you are such a strong and beautiful woman inside and out! You got this girl 💪🏻 sending you lots of love and positive vibes 💕✨💕✨

    Itoshi YoshidaItoshi YoshidaӨдрийн өмнө
  • Omg i was so hesitant to watch this because, I was like great another “ I’m pregnant! Video “. But this is great. I myself can’t have children and to be honest I don’t want to. I had a pregnancy scare lol! Couple of years ago and freaked out, I cried and had a meltdown. I asked myself if this was normal, because I have always seen girls be so excited and joyful and I didn’t feel that way. Thank you for sharing your reaction and doubts with us. I relate with you so much and i’m glad you can be vulnerable with us. I’m excited to see your journey and be inspired like always.

    ledanzeledanzeӨдрийн өмнө
  • I love that you chose to share all these feelings and journey with us, instead of just posting the "normal" happy/confident reaction. For the longest time, I didn't know if I was ever gonna have kids and then I got married and said "ok, I'm gonna have kids when i'm 30" but now I'm gonna be 30 this year and I find myself still wondering if I am ready for the change...it helps a lot to see other women dealing with similar feelings so thank you for sharing🤗

    Ralu RRalu RӨдрийн өмнө
  • I’m so happy for you two💓

    JirananJirananӨдрийн өмнө
  • For personal resons this was very hard for me to watch but I did want to let you know that I am so incredibly happy for you & the wonderful chapters about to unfold. Thank you. Thank you for sharing these raw emotions, these authentic & honest as well as vulnerable moments with us, Jenn 🤍🤍🤍

    Cœur De PirateCœur De PirateӨдрийн өмнө
  • I'm literally in tears !! been following your journey Jen since clothes encounters days ! it's crazy to see you grow and bloom as a person .. it feels like i know u up close and personal. You are going to be an incredible dedicated mother .. that I'm sure of. Congraaats to you and Ben !!

    RiRi BoubaRiRi BoubaӨдрийн өмнө
  • Congratulations Jenn! I’ve been your fan since the start, and now it’s a new chapter of your life! I’m so excited and just so proud of you

    Fahsai SiriwattakanonFahsai SiriwattakanonӨдрийн өмнө
  • How crazy would it be if you and your baby had the same birthday!!!?!!! I’m so excited for your next journey with Ben to become parents! Congrats Jen&Ben!!! ❤️

    Mayly VueMayly VueӨдрийн өмнө
  • So happy for you... and from my friends who have kids: they all cried, and worried for the same reasons. How much their lives will change, will they love their children, will their children love them, will they be good mothers, will their children be healthy and become good human beings, will they struggle to provide the best? They cried before and after 😁 and there are happy days and hard days but they embrace them. But no lazy Sundays in bed until 2 pm 😅

    XC SioXC SioӨдрийн өмнө
  • Kid some years later: So this is how it all started 🤔🤔🤔

    Sepci0Sepci0Өдрийн өмнө
  • I’m currently on a subway in China and I’m in tears. Jenn I’ve been here since 2014, have never left a comment on any MNthe video, and I’m so glad I’m still here. It’s such an honor to share this amazing life change with you. You are going to be a wonderful mother and everything is just going to be great!!! Can’t wait for the new life:)

    Tiantian DongTiantian DongӨдрийн өмнө
  • I am 30 years old and my little girl was born two years ago. I was terrified. I didn't feel ready. don't stress yourself out reading books or going to google. ask for help from those around you, do not be afraid. after a while it will be all natural trust me. it will be difficult, but also the most beautiful joy in the world. congratulations with love from Italy 💕

    norASMRnorASMRӨдрийн өмнө
  • I'm not crying you are

    Shirah Cizin - שירה ציזיןShirah Cizin - שירה ציזיןӨдрийн өмнө
  • i cannot stop crying...hands down one of the most purest videos i have ever seen...may the good god bless you

    arisiaarisia2 өдрийн өмнө
  • Congrats Jenn! I'm so happy to hear this. You gonna be fine. You are a good mother already!

    iera wanieiera wanie2 өдрийн өмнө
  • So beautifully made❤️ congratulations !!!

    juliana galofrejuliana galofre2 өдрийн өмнө
  • You will be a great parent dont worry!!!!!

    cakepoppopcakepoppop2 өдрийн өмнө
  • This is so beautiful.

    Citrusliv LCitrusliv L2 өдрийн өмнө
  • aw :,)

    cecichwancecichwan2 өдрийн өмнө
  • Who cares

    Caleb RandallCaleb Randall2 өдрийн өмнө
  • Congrats!

    AllOverItNowAllOverItNow2 өдрийн өмнө
  • 정말 축하해요!! 아이를 통해서 또 다른 세상으로 여행할 수 있답니다~그 세상은 너무나 황홀하지만 때론 너무나 어렵기도 해요~힘내시고 건강 관리잘하세요~

    lee약사lee약사2 өдрийн өмнө
  • The fact that you were worried that you wouldnt be a good mother, shows that you are going to be an amazing mother. Congrats!!

    charlene Kabongocharlene Kabongo2 өдрийн өмнө
  • i'm crying this is so beautiful!! congrats on your lil gummy bear 💛 ~side note~ might be a long shot but does anyone know where her shirt @ 5:56 is from?

    miranda amiranda a2 өдрийн өмнө
  • Wow. Congrats! Thank you for sharing such a raw and intimate moment.

    Visunraya SuepukdeeVisunraya Suepukdee2 өдрийн өмнө
  • I started crying when you cried bc your period was late... you both seem to be such awesome people so full of love!

    D BDD BD2 өдрийн өмнө
  • First, congratulations for this wonderful new beginning. Secondly, I cried during Ben's reaction. He is reaction is so sincere.

    Lola MochaLola Mocha2 өдрийн өмнө
  • Crying 😭 so happy for you guys! 💕

    Rebecca MoodyRebecca Moody2 өдрийн өмнө
  • Such a beautiful video 🥰♥️

    iamrachelchungiamrachelchung2 өдрийн өмнө
  • I stopped watching you for a bit because I couldn’t relate to your content anymore, but saw this video and related so much. I just had a baby in October 2020, but when that pregnancy test showed positive, all I could think about was the “parasite” (excuse my language) that was already inside me. I have a strong, healthy baby girl now, and am literally pumping in my break room as I write this comment. It’s cliche, but the next chapter will be filled with so much support and surprises. Not gonna pretend that it’s the best time of your life, but it’s so different in such a different way. Best of luck to you and Ben!!

    chibinobaachanchibinobaachan2 өдрийн өмнө
  • THANK YOU for highlighting your initial fear and shock! I am 28 and have no kids yet, but its something that my husband and I talk about all the time. Maybe this is naive, but I honestly felt I was alone in feeling terrified of being a parent, and a part of me felt guilty for that. People always show you the happy, excited reactions but never the scared shitless ones. People always talk about how excited they were when they found out (which they should be) but it made me feel like something was wrong with me because when I pictured it for myself, I didn't feel excited. I felt petrified. Congratulations to you and your family!

    Savannah BurrisSavannah Burris2 өдрийн өмнө
  • Oh what a beautiful news!!! Congratulations!!!🥰

    Eleonora SquarcialupiEleonora Squarcialupi2 өдрийн өмнө
  • Worrying about being a good mom means you are going to be an even better mom than you can imagine.

    CorinneCorinne2 өдрийн өмнө
  • Such a beautiful video!

    Kya NicholsonKya Nicholson2 өдрийн өмнө
  • Honestly I thought the same thing. Im a bit over 6 weeks and I’m excited but very very scared. But hope for the best your baby will love you no matter what. You’re going to be an amazing mommy

    christen gardnerchristen gardner2 өдрийн өмнө
  • I also got pregnant just 12 weeks now, my baby will be 1 month younger than yours Jenn. I had the same doubts as you, and I even sat down with my hubby to discuss the pros and cons of having or not having this baby, but we have more positive reasons to have him/her :) you will be a good mom Jenn, I’ve been watching your channel for years, and so I know you are stronger than you thought. Glad to share the same experience with you, hope our babies will be healthy and happy 😊

    Xiang LiXiang Li2 өдрийн өмнө
  • I'm eating tacos snd bawling at the same time

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  • omg congratulations

    Alissa LathamAlissa Latham2 өдрийн өмнө
  • Congratulations! Having children is the best thing I’ve ever done. They change you in the most incredible ways. Yes there will be hard days- but mostly there will beautiful moments mixed up in your everyday. And when you look back you will see that this little person was always meant to be and that life is so very precious. All the best guys! ❤️🌈👏🏻

    Elise HewettElise Hewett2 өдрийн өмнө
  • 1:02 and im already crying hahaha so happy for you! Congrats

    Pien GeldorpPien Geldorp2 өдрийн өмнө
  • i’m in tears rn. i related so hard when jenn said “suddenly the question of ‘do i want kids?’ flip to ‘can i even have kids?’”. when i was younger i was adamant that i didn’t like kids, i might’ve even hated them. i was the youngest in a big family and i never had any experience with them so i just thought kids weren’t for me. it all changed when my siblings started to have their own children and i fell in love with my nieces and nephews and now i can’t imagine my life without them. the idea of having my own child enchanted me. a few years ago i was diagnosed with endometriosis after having surgery to remove a cyst from my ovary. i don’t exactly know the extent of my condition and if it has damaged my chances of conceiving. suddenly i felt lost. i still do but i’ve accepted that what is bound to happen will happen in time. i hope that when the time comes i’ll be able to have my own family. thank you for sharing this part of your life with us. i hope everything goes smoothly with your new chapter in life 🤍

    sugarsugar2 өдрийн өмнө
  • My heart broke when you said : i don't know if i am going to be a good mother. You are and you will, you will see everything changes but you get used to it and you will love your baby so much

    Sarah vSarah v2 өдрийн өмнө
  • This is the most relatable pregnancy video I've ever seen. To see someone with fear and doubt feels exactly like how I would feel. Got me crying and everything. Congratulations 💗

    Rosie DRosie D2 өдрийн өмнө
  • I cried 2 buckets

    introvertedoryintrovertedory2 өдрийн өмнө
  • You will be a greatest mother in the world

    nhung ngohongnhung ngohong2 өдрийн өмнө